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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This sounds more like “new” money. People with upper middle class values tend to avoid this kind of extravagance. [/quote] I am 21:06, and at least for my UMC childhood this was very true. Parents believed in investing/saving, much more than I ever realized! Growing up, though, parents essentially encouraged a plethora of activities and enrichment opportunities. From pottery to horseback riding to swim team to tennis lessons to flute lessons that I hated. There was a fine line between education about finances from parents/grandparents and it being a sin to be materialistic. Re: the finances aspect, UMC families in my perspective want to preserve family "standing" and ensure smart financial decisions. A funny (and memorable to this day) example was my grandparents stopped giving material gifts at age seven, and instead gave checks for multiple times a year (birthday, Christmas, special events/achievements) to teach responsibility and the value of a dollar. We always joked that my grandfather had his broker and lawyer on speed dial...[/quote]
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