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Here is the thing. All you sexless ladies are bored with your husbands right? But (most) of you remain (at least slightly) interested in sex with some other new/exciting man who showers you with attention.

Think about that for a moment. A middle aged husband's best chance for sex is not with his own wife, but with the lady up the street, the woman who works at dry cleaners, the girl at church. He may be boring to you, but he can easily be that new/exciting guy for every other woman on the planet.

If you are a sexless wife, this is what's keeping your marriage together right now.[/quote]Because to the lady up the street, you are also new to her, and she doesn't harbor any resentment to you, yet.  And vice versa.
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Exactly! Every 9 months, the couples rotate, like musical chairs. This is the only proven method that keeps a sexless marriage from becoming a divorce.
So long as women have a rotating cast of new/exciting guys to woo her, she exhibits a responsive libido, and another marriage is saved.[/quote]
Some people really should not get married.  Marriage requires a lot of compromise and self sacrifice. If you don't think you can do it, don't get married. Please.[/quote]

I know right? [b]Women who might lose all interest in sex [/b]AND still expect fidelity should NOT get married because they will be terribly disappointed.[/quote]
Women who have crystal balls and who can tell the future would definitely not get married to a man who doesn't want to compromise or make any effort.[/quote]
Normal guys need regular sex and (for 99% of men) it takes compromise and effort to get that. If he's not doing all that (compromise+effort+SEX) with you, then he's certainly doing all that with his affair partner. Which means his compromise and effort weren't the problem.[/quote]

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