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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there is a reason that they don't want to invite you.  and there is a reason that DH doesn't seem to care that you're not invited either. Time to have a good hard look at what those reasons may be.  *hint, if you're anything like you are on here IRL, that's the reason *
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Well it's like the old adage what came first the chicken or the egg? Did you ever stop to think I get upset because they exclude me? Not that they exclude me because I act like this?[/quote]

Have you ever asked your DH why he doesn't insist you are involved in these plans?  I don't know why you place all the blame on your MIL.  Your husband could have your back here but he chooses not to.  And please don't say that it's because she has some weird hold on him. He's a grown adult.  And if he is that much of a momma's boy, don't have kids with him. [/quote]

I think that was the first helpful piece of advice someone has given me so far on these boards. I'm surprised no one else has mentioned in 10 pages that my husband should be standing up for me.[/quote]

No it's not the first time someone has implied your DH might be part of the problem.

However it's the first time you've " heard" it because you are interpreting as pp viewing you as a victim, the same way you view yourself.[/quote]

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