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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  No kids, but we've been together since college, 22 years.  Losing my financial stability because he makes twice my salary, and we just put all our money into renovating our "forever" home that I won't be able to afford by myself and we won't be able to sell it for what we've put into it.

I'm sorry for your loss, 19:14, and I appreciate the sympathy from PPs.  Just having a rough night.[/quote]

If you’ve been together since college it sounds like you’ve never truly lived on your own. That can be intimidating, I get it. Especially when you’re used to a certain lifestyle.

I lived alone for many years before marrying. It’s not that bad. There are many lovely one bedroom apartments with great amenities. Pool, fitness center. Maybe start fresh in a warmer place since you have no kids. You’ll make new friends. It won’t be as bad as you think. You can rebuild. Plenty of divorcees live in such communities. I’m married with kids and I’ve had wonderful friends who are divorced. I consider them brave for extracting themselves from their own personal hells. Takes guts. [/quote]

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