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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What the hell is the point of seeing a therapist if they wont identify the problem?

Are you supposed to see a therapist so they can convince you that your cheating spouse didnt really that bad of a person?

Am I to spend $150 an hour to let them off the hook?

F that.[/quote]

They help you talk to each other, understand each other and see what is possible moving forward. [b]THEIR opinion if the partner does not matter. They are not a parent or a judge.[/b] They facilitate communication and understanding (as in insights, not condoning )[/quote]

I walked in and the first thing she said to my wife is that "you have feelings for him, right? You probably want to see him again."

I cannot repeat this enough, do not go to therapy. A postnup is 1000x better than the best marriage counselor. Often, infidelity [b]does not[/b] lead to a favorable judgement in a divorce. There's no consequence for cheating. A postnup, that's heavily in favor of the victimized spouse, will make people reconsider their behavior.  [/quote]

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