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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope everyone here learns from their experience with their own parents. Whatever worked great, make sure you do that for yourself/your spouse. Whatever didn't, make sure you don't. Either way, the most important thing is to talk about your end of life wishes with your children. Discuss it, don't dictate it, and hopefully, whatever you decide, you are able to fully fund that decision.[/quote] I’ve already had the conversation with both my DD and my stepson. My pragmatic DD is the only one who said okay. The other two kids were deeply offended that we said stick us in a home. My stepson said his gf/soon-to-be fiancée would be thrilled to take care of us. Now I have to have a conversation with her as well. We do no not want you to let us drag you down just so we can age in place. Put us in a home. Visit when you can. Don’t feel guilty. It’s our preference.[/quote]
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