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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would discuss with your son and let him prioritize:

Grandma has decided to buy you clothes a size too small because she apparently has decided that you should be a different size and thinks that a good way to “fix” your perfectly normal, healthy body is to try to embarass you in front of our entire family.  I have told her that I am absolutely livid and that I will never forgive her if she follows through with this plan, but I can’t guarantee that that threat will stop her from doing it.

So now we have a choice and I want your opinion:

1) We go to family Christmas, if Grandma is awful to you, we tell her it’s unacceptable and we leave

2) We go to family Christmas and if Grandma is awful we just ignore her and change the subject.

3) We skip family Christmas and just do our own thing with you, me and dad.

It depends on how much this bothers you and on whether you actually will miss seeing yo
ur cousins for the holiday.  If you think it will be really upsetting and you don’t care much about seeing cousins we can just skip it, but I don’t want to just make that choice for you.  You are a young man now, not a child and there are lots of way to deal with a bully.[/quote]

This is too much to put on a 16 yo.  [/quote]

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