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[quote=Anonymous]My DIL was raised by parents who were both traumatized themselves and abusive to their daughter. The fallout is that she's fanatically devoted to them, although they continue to mistreat her. Our son remains close to us. We've done our best to be kind to DIL, but we don't see that much of her. She's very anxious, and I think feels uncomfortable and unsafe around us. I attribute her sense of unsafety to projection of her experience with her own family. My other son and his wife have an unremarkable relationship with us. We all get along fine. So maybe this support's OP's premise. Yes, I do wonder what I did to my son that led to his choice of a partner who's so troubled.[/quote]
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