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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP forcing this “abuse” agenda - what do you really think is going to happen? Do you think OP is going to go tell her DH he’s wrong in his approach and start singing, “we’re not gonna take it!”? Do you think this will resolve OPs concern of how to support him? Do you think having her second guess her marriage’s Health is helpful?

We ALL have a sliver of a picture of reality from a few posts from one tired mother — you think that gives expert insight into their relationship? Or even full context? I don’t.

Some of us just don’t agree on how to label her DH’s behavior. That’s fine. But saying she is being abused by him pouting isn’t helpful at all. Start another thread on what abuse is and isn’t and we can chime in there. Give it a rest here.[/quote]

Telling her it’s normal is not helpful. Oh it’s it’s totally normal ... he does need counseling just hire a nanny and enable his behavior.

FFS.[/quote]

At worst, it’s a poor communication style. It’s not abuse. Abuse is not brooding to yourself and complaining. Abuse is calling someone a stupid b, or saying you aren’t worth crap, and ignoring tears, or more specific acts of intentional harm. OP describes someone who is upset, emotionally immature, probably exhausted with blue balls, and has a little attitude going on 3 days. That’s not abuse. You’re doing a disservice to people that truly are victims of abuse.

Call it abnormal if you want. But it’s not abusive. Sorry. We will have to agree to disagree.[/quote]

Seriously. All if you posters shouting abuse are spitting in the faces of women who have actually been abused. Your husband being a baby isn't abuse and saying it is is dangerous and asinine. [/quote]

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