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[quote=Anonymous]I speak from experience that people make plans and death throws the plans out the window. It's hard to let it go when you know that it isn't really 'his' money but would have gone straight to his child with her, if he hadn't changed the plan.

If my mother knew how my father would throw her money to other people instead of us kids, she would have put it ALL in writing. She 'knew' they didn't have to because they knew the plan... they had a great marriage, were on the same page, then without the money being locked away on paper, the plan has changed... money was willed to our dad (because who else would oversee our care) but we have had to 'buy' things off my dad that are already in the will to be going to us- homes, furnishings, etc etc. Rather than fight we are just taking things off his hands by paying him so he can't give them away to other people in the future.

Sounds crazy and it makes me sad but she wouldn't have wanted us fighting and we are lucky we can afford to buy him out.[/quote]

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