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[quote=Anonymous]I think it’s entirely different when the inequality is discussed beforehand AND the other siblings are ok with it. For instance, my ILs have discussed leaving more to my BIL (whose family they already half support). This BIL has some issues, although I think the mollycoddling by the parents made it worse. We are very well off and they will never be close, so we are ok with it. But a part of the reason is I suspect if everything was divided equally, down the road we’d end up helping them out of our own money. This way, hopefully that won’t happen. And I don’t think we’re talking big bucks either. But if there had been no discussion and my DH was blindsided, I think he’d be hurt, even if he understood the reasons long term, This of course doesn’t apply in OP’s case, where her sister is perfectly solvent on her own.[/quote]
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