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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, she acted honestly and ethically in bringing this up with you. In a healthy marriage with open communication, this is not the kind of thing that should stay bottled up. You declined and she has respected that. She has done nothing wrong by merely broaching the subject and opening the lines of communication. She probably thought there was a chance you would be willing to consider it. From your account, she has not pressured you or acted behind your back. She has done nothing wrong to you by having an honest, responsible, mature conversation about a difficult subject.

The issues you have with the impact on your relationship of her simply bringing up the conversation are your issues to deal with, they're your feelings about this. I suggest that if you want to get through this, you talk to a counselor, individually, and probably also discuss it with her with the facilitation of a couples' counselor because you seem to be holding her responsible for wrongs that she has not really committed.[/quote]

if OP was a woman, you would never post such utter BS.[/quote]

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