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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, and I realize this specific post is a bit of a vent, but I am ready to pull my hair out. My mother just called to say she wants a cat, and I asked her how she will empty the litter box if she's not able to throw the trash away, she said.....OMG.....that when I am over there on the weekends, I can do it. I told her that I am not going to drive from one state to another to empty a litter box, and she said "it's not such a big deal....you'll be here anyway." I think at this point she is, even subconsciously, testing to see how much she can depend on us for her every need. But that just confirms she needs an aide. Scooping out the cat sh!t on M, W, F can be part of her job. This is getting so impossible. I am now pouring myself a glass of wine....and trying to relax. The cat thing has put me over the top.[/quote]
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