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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can tell you that 18 months after my wife effectively announced there would be no more sex, that I moved out and filed for divorce.

Life as a single man is much better. I have more sex, and with much higher quality women. [/quote]

Did you ever ask you wife why? Why did she not feel like having sex with you? Or what the real issue was?  [/quote]

If you ask a woman why she doesn't want to have sex with you, you'll just get a big cloud of bullshit and then she'll start inventing "problems" that are the supposed reason for her not wanting sex. The typical desperate, frustrated husband will start trying to "fix" these "problems" - but whenever you fix one, she'll invent a new one. He's like a cat chasing the red dot, he never catches it.

99% of the time the real problem is:
1. You (her husband) are not attractive
2. She is attracted to someone else
3. Both of the above

She's not going to tell you either of those things. She expects you to just figure it out.

As a man, you can fix problem #1. Sometimes, but not always, that also fixes problem #2. If it doesn't, at least you've done what you need to do to prepare for your next woman.[/quote]

Eh, I think you are too cynical.  I love my DH, he's handsome but I have no real desire to have sex with him. We do it sometimes and I may enjoy it but if it never happened it's fine with me.  Not all women are hot dogs like men and after a while my DH is a handsome roommate, not like a passionate lover.  It just is what it is.  Many married women agree[/quote]

Most married women agree. This is not news! That is why most married men hit on all the women at work conferences, it’s why Ashley Madison has doubled in size *after* getting hacked, and there are Asian massage parlors on every corner. But once those kids hit college we can trade you in for a younger model who still knows how to fake it. As you said, it just is what it is. [/quote]

Hate to break it to you but WOMEN are the ones filing for divorce much more than men.  Mainly because once the kids get older and are financially sound there's no reason to put up with a man's nonsense. They seldom find much younger women, only in the movies. If anything it's a big hit because they have to split the retirement etc. Women do much better than men after divorce.[/quote]

True, women file for the divorce. But false that men don't pair up with younger/hotter/thinner women. A 50yo dude with a good income will CLEAN UP on the dating market.[/quote]

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