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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the fact that as adults, a year into 'dating' he is still not even your "boyfriend", he's never met you rchild, tells me that marriage is not in the cards, esp if he is 'married to work.' There was nothing drawing the two of you closer, it seems, until this happened. But this is an external event, do not overly romanticize it as some sort of fate that will suddenly transform your casual relationship into marriage. This is not saying that marriage couldn't work, but I see no evidence that it necessarily would.

I would only get married a second time because I really wanted to. Same thing with having a child.

So many people here on hung up on the fact that he's wealthy  and wants the baby--no, actually, just doesn't want you to have an abortion (not the same as actually wanting the child). But at the end of the day, its really about whether you want to have, and most likely raise on your own, another child, without any guarantee that he will be involved. Only you can figure that out, but don;t let a man who can't commit to marriage or even working less force you into a having a child you're not ready to have. [/quote]

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