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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look people-don’t be stupid. #boymom is used to keep our sanity in a world where moms of boys deal with constant pressure to make their boys “behave”, “reign it in”, or whatever. Things like personal hygiene, table manners, indoor voices, are just not as easy to teach to boys as it is to the *majority* of little girls, of course there are exceptions. But you just don’t need to exercise little girls like you need little boys. I have mom friends with just boys and we literally text each other things like, “hey-I’m heading to the park to run the boys, want to join?” “RUN the boys” #boymom [/quote] Here's why it is so hard to relate to a #BOYMOM versus a mom of boys. You cannot offer any form of commisseration, identification, sympathy/empathy, or relating to them without them completely dismissing you and trying to diminish you because YOU JUST CAN'T because you're a mother to girls. So you can't know. So even if your girl is hoarse from shouting, a skinned knee from tree-climbing, covered in dirt and holding up a random animal tooth for inspection, as my oldest girl was today, you just. can't. possibly. because #BOYMOM. So go ahead, #boymom. I'll stop trying to connect with you or relate to you, or encouraging my kids to play with yours. And then I'll be a snobby, standoffish #girlmom, and you'll continue to be so "unseen."[/quote] Oh, FFS. Chill out.[/quote] I have a different perspective from yours, clearly. That doesn't mean I need to "chill out." That means I have a different perspective from yours. Can you handle it? [/quote]
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