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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-h has a girlfriend turned fiancée who interacts with my daughters. I despise her. The mother of your boyfriend’s kids probably also despises you. It’s nothing personal, I’m sure you are lovely, normal person. Mothers do not like other women crowding into the mothering role however. This is fact. Best advice is stay out of the way, and have a great time with your new boyfriend but don’t interfere even in the slightest. You most likely not be warmly received, by no fault of of your own. Be hands off, don’t post pictures of yourself in a motherly pose, don’t do specula milestone things like get ears pierced, don’t bribe them with lavish gifts, don’t interfere with parenting decisions like what kind of electronics the kids are allowed, etc.

I also have a boyfriend with a daughter, so I know both sides of this experience. It’s not easy. Unless you feel you are soulmates or are passionately, deeply in love, don’t bother...[/quote]

You know two sides, not all sides. This attitude is terrible for kids full stop.

- grown up step kid[/quote]

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