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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's the problem isn't it though?

OP's wife has no interest in "giving and sharing" in a sexual manner as befits a real marriage.[/quote]

Good, so it’s a question of improving their relationship. I think there are people who are trained to help with that, and if OP is really interested he can ask them. Just as if you really want to fix your car you don’t start posting on a message board to see if anyone can tell what’s wrong with it based on some pictures. For sure at least one kook on there will say that cars were made by the devil and he should throw it away. If you want to fix it, go to the best mechanic you can find. And get a second opinion while you’re at it![/quote]

Since you brought up the car analogy, it's much simpler than that.

If you don't maintain your car by changing the oil regularly, you will blow up the engine.

A prolonged consultation with  a qualified auto mechanic is unnecessary.

There are, of course, people who drive cars but are so clueless that they never change the oil, and when the car dies, they are surprised by it.  "Why should I have to get the oil in my car changed every  so often?  IT'S NOT FAIR."

Regular marital sex should be considered "marital maintenance" just like regular oil changes on your car.

You don't need to go to a marital therapist to understand that if you never have sex with  your spouse, it is very likely you will destroy your marriage.

Just like failing to change the oil will ultimately destroy your engine.

"Why should I have sex with my spouse?  IT'S NOT FAIR."[/quote]

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