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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. I’m shocked no one has asked why the husband didn’t declutter/clean/cook while unemployed. The house should have been immaculate during this time. Seems like OP has a DH problem as well—the idea that paying for cleaning is amoral is laughable in 2019.[/quote]

Because double standard [/quote]

For me it’s because if she actually has hoarding/clutter issues, she wouldn’t want her DH to throw out the stuff and it wouldn’t solve the underlying problem if she goes out and buys stuff to replace what’s been thrown out/falls back on her ways. I say this as someone that struggles and has a mom that is a low level hoarder. It also sounds like DH was doing major home improvement projects during that time as well.  Cook, do laundry, clean bathrooms - yes he could have done those things.  Clear out rooms not being used for the intended purpose that have her stuff or things she wants to keep without her there - I could see him not taking that on.[/quote]

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