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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was not a long time family friend.  Any play dates our kids had were part of much larger groups, so it isn't like they used to know me as a neighbor who is now their mom.  At most,  they remember me as someone their dad works with.

I have been to therapy related to my own divorce and I know it's best not to share adult information with kids.  The kids have no business knowing about the sex lives of their parents.  There are two sides to every story,  and I'm honestly just trying to protect my kids from having their step brother from  spew whatever version of the truth his mother has planted in his head.  This isn't about me.
 This is about protecting three young children from being exposed to misleading, inappropriate,  and one-sided information that they are way too young to understand and process.

Take your feelings for me out of this scenario and please focus on how I can prevent the dysfunction that the step kids are dealing with from spreading to my kids.  Mine are adjusting well and have accepted the divorce.   [/quote]

If you didn’t want the step kids telling your kids the truth about your behavior then YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE MARRIED THEIR FATHER! Jesus lady you’re talking like this is some random event that you had nothing to do with. You are experiencing the logical consequences of your own actions, nothing else!

You really need to drop this crazy “blended family” fantasy and alternate custody weeks. [/quote]

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