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Reply to "If you could go back in time what would you tell your younger self about dating/ relationships?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't mask your fear of rejection with the facade of being selective. "No" is not as scary as you think. Date a lot. Don't underestimate the value of relationship experience. It's less about finding "the one" and more about finding yourself: your likes, your dislikes, and most importantly your own flaws and issues. Your job is not to be someone's therapist. You may find that "fixing" someone only results in them becoming a version of themselves that is no longer compatible with you. The same goes for letting someone become your therapist. Never lie about your feelings especially to yourself. Staying in a relationship to preserve their feelings or your illusion will only magnify the pain. [/quote] This is such excellent advice! If I had realized any of this when I was still young I would have done so many things differently.[/quote]
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