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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guys - it’s 2018. Men don’t just waltz out of the house to golf with their buddies while their wife and kids stay home preparing Thanksgiving Dinner for *their* friends! My God, have we gotten anywhere in this country?![/quote]

eh, my dad always helped my mom with the cooking when I was a kid and they were pretty traditional people.  This business of a man ditching his family to do his own thing on Thanksgiving is both foreign and sad to me.

Maybe that flies in some families but it isn't anything that I've ever dealt with.
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My H helps with all the cooking and plays football every thanksgiving morning.

Why does it take all day to make dinner? Why can't you make some things the night before with your H?

Pretty much all you do once the Turkey is in is baste it? How do you need all hands on deck for that?[/quote]
Exactly. If it takes you all day and all hands on deck to prepare a thanksgiving dinner, then you are doing it wrong...or you're just a martyr.[/quote]

It takes awhile to do all the prep and the cooking.  Unless you are cutting a lot of corners, using boxed foods (like instant mashed potatoes and Stovetop) or simply not making that much in the way of food...it absolutely does take a fair amount of time to prepare Thanksgiving dinner.  If you are also watching the parade on t.v., playing board games, listening to holiday music and chatting the morning just zooms right on by.  We eat around 3pm.[/quote]

Enough with the boring parade.

If you start at noon you have 3 f'ing hours to get the sides done and you can easily do some prep on Wednesday. Pies are always gone before.

Your are just obsessing about some vision in your head of what you want and are not being a good partner.

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