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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmmm OP- if you and friend are really platonic, never attracted physically and you are colleagues, why not look at the situation as possibly adding a new friend to the mix. She might be a lovely person and a lot of fun! You’ve done 3 trips with this guy already. If the gf of only a few weeks turns out to be his person, you’d be their friend, as well, right?  If he eventually commits long term to gf, this decision isn’t ideal. You’ve put him in a position to choose you over her. It’s not very fair. If she felt threatened by you, she would not be cool with joining you on the trip. You seem threatened and feel like a third wheel, but she’s the new person involved and is willing to be ok with the history of your relationship with her bf. This says a lot about her IMO. Why risk a losing an important friend in your life? Eventually, both of you will possibly be committed with families. I’d choose to keep my friend and welcome her. Great life-long friendships are built on compromise and genuine love/care for each others well being. I would not give up my best guy friends (2 of them) for my DH and vice versa. [/quote]

How much have you traveled with other people? How about strangers? I cannot travel with my very best friend. No way in hell. She sleeps until noon on her days off,  hates exercise  is repulsed by it and therefore cannot walk far. She also fearful of nearly everything unknown. I love her like a sister, but traveled with her once and will never do it again. [/quote]

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