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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]So what do the spirits look like? Or do you just hear them? [/quote] I get this question a lot. I would love for other empaths and mediums to jump on and share their experiences! It's interesting how differently people can perceive the same thing. Everyone reads energy differently. Everyone sees spirits differently. Mediums use their "clairs" to "see" spirits. Clairvoyance is clear seeing, but not necessarily with your eyes. I "see" spirits in my minds eye. They usually present themselves to me in a way that my client will recognize. For example, I might see an older lady with gray hair and a red dress for a client. The spirit isn't wearing physical clothes. But the dress probably has some significance for the client. Maybe she is holding a purple feather. It may not make sense to me, but it likely will hold meaning for a client. (That's actually a real example. The client and her great, grandmother found a bright purple feather on a beach.) Claircognizance is clear knowing. You can't explain why you know something, you just do. I think most people have this ability. We ignore it way too often. This happened to me before 9/11 for example. I knew something awful was going to happen. In my dream, it was a terrible plane crash. I saw planes and buildings and fire. I didn't get any information that would have been useful. But I did "know" something was off. Same thing happened to me before the Las Vegas concert shootings. I dreamed something terrible happened in the desert. In my dream, I heard symphonic music. I didn't know it was going to be a shooting. I just knew something terrible was going to happen in the desert and that it involved music. Again, not enough to help anyone. But I knew. Clairaudience is clear hearing. Sometimes I can hear a spirit talking to me. Sometimes it's words. Often it's music or tones. Religious people will often talk about the "still, small voice of God". That's clairaudience. Clairsentience is clear feeling. You actually feel what your client feels. This is my strongest clair. I can feel pain when another person is sick or hurt. A really simple example - Trey Gowdy is sick. He may not even realize it. But I can feel it when I look at him, even on television. It's either heart or lung. It feels like it may be mostly stress and anxiety (at least I hope that's all it is). It feels like heaviness in my chest When my sister went into labor three weeks early, I knew it before she told anyone. And we were living overseas. I felt it in my abdomen. I called my mother before she did. When my son broke his arm at school, I was already in the car driving to the school when the nurse called me. I felt it in my arm. I woke up at 2am with searing pain in my ankle. We were about to head to the ER when it went away as quickly as it came. My grandmother died at 2:14am. We found out the next morning. From a blood clot in her ankle. Some people even smell or taste things that spirits want them to know about. Perfume is super common. Most empaths use a combination of clairs, but we usually have some that are stronger than others. Also, spirits can present themselves in different ways. It's not easy for them to manipulate things in our physical environment. Just like it's hard for us to perceive things in theirs. We have to meet them in the middle most of the time. They can look like shadows, mists, lights, orbs, outlines, sometimes you'll see a full body for just a millisecond, sometimes just a face,... Loved ones will try to appear as we remember them. Most of the time I feel a spirit before I ever see it. Keep in mind that if you are trying to contact a deceased loved one and they know you will be scared by their presence, they aren't going to pop up in front of you. They are much more likely to send you signs. Watch for anything that repeats in your environment. Watch for objects that are not in their ordinary place - maybe a feather in an apartment complex, for example. Watch for strange behavior in your electronics. Or subtle changes in temperature. My grandmother loves to send smells. And it always makes me smile. [/quote] My god. Many of these things have happened to me at one time or another. 9/11 dream - but you're right, it's terrifying but so non-specific! It's not like it actually HELPED in any way. One time had a whisper in my ear telling me to walk away from a situation before it went bad, and I did. One time I was able to see in my head that my (now ex) husband was with his AP... I could see them, I knew exactly where they were, and I told him all about it when he got home. LOL he thought I was gps tracking him. One time I was on metro and started to worry about my daughter. I was staring at my phone (it was blank/locked) when it rang in my palm and school was calling to tell me something that was pretty bad. I also lived in a condo for 18 months that I'm pretty sure was haunted. We all had bizarre mental health issues while living there. I lost my shirt when I sold it only 18 months later but didn't care; just had to get away from whatever was there. One time I had gotten out of the shower and I was sitting in front of my vanity mirror when something scratched me down my back. It hurt. But left no marks. I think that was the moment I finally stopped writing off what was happening to us. One time a coworker had died unexpectedly. We were not friends. Sort of adversaries. And they assigned me to her duties. Shortly thereafter she visited me in my room as I slept, staring down at me. Not in a friendly manner either. She didn't do anything but I could feel her resentment. Only happened the one time. But it was so real. These things only happen to me once every few years but, man when they do, it's very surreal. [/quote]
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