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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once again, what was DH's position on having the kid in the first place? Was he enthusiastic about starting a family, or was he ambivalent but went along with it to make OP happy? This matters a lot here. [/quote] Not really. Because once he committed to sex without birth control, he has a responsibility to be a father to the child he chose to create, even if he did it to make his wife quiet.[/quote] Putting a roof over a kid's head, providing them with an education, feeding them, these things are at least as critical to being a parent as playing together on the floor. Right now this family has a division of labor where each parent is only doing part of the parenting. That seems to be something they agreed upon, but [b]neither one is parenting more than the other.[/b] [/quote] NP. This is nonsense. OP is absolutely doing most of the parenting; it sounds like he rarely spends time with his child. He could have chosen a less demanding, lower-paying job that allowed more time to spend with his family and on his hobbies, but he didn’t. Nothing can substitute for direct parental attention, especially not money. It’s sad you think so. [/quote]
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