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Reply to "Question for Women - Dating advice for 51 year old man."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]And yes, he will be evaluated on his lack of savings, so he will need to up his "game" in other areas. Why do you think women should find men attractive that bring nothing to the relationship? Why? [/quote] And what do you bring other than an appreciation for his money?[/quote] You need to flip the script and ask who’s really the gold digger in some of these scenarios. I’m a 50-something woman who worked full-time while raising two kids. I’m now ready to retire, and I’m in a good position financially because I saved (and even XDH taking some of it in the divorce didn’t hurt me too much). Do I really need a man with no savings and lots of debt? Do I want to say goodbye to my dreams of traveling because it’s going to be harder for two to live on savings for one? No. And that’s why I always swipe left when you say you’re “self employed” (euphemism for “laid off” unless there are other indications you actually work) or when you post a picture of your band that you say is your job.[/quote]
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