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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow so many harsh responses in this thread! Adult adoptee here, both birth parents deceased. Found that out via ancestry.com DNA test like OP. I did not contact any people that came up as close relatives and open the secret. 1/2 sibling contacted me first, she broke the news to the rest of them. I am significantly younger, they all suspected the father was cheating with a coworker. I am taking their lead, some want contact, others don't. Live far away, I am looking for nothing from them and which is probably why this is all progressing smoothly. [b] Prior to this I had read many articles regarding right to original birth certificate being a basic human right. I happen to agree with this. No one should be able to tell someone they can't have a document that is their own. [/b] Thankful I don't come from a crazy bunch like the PP who sounds like she has some bad genes. That adoptee should run and run far. [/quote] Amen to this which is why other countries have the laws that they do. [/quote]
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