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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had some asshole contact me, saying we share a father. She tracked me through some cousin on my dad’s side who put her DNA online. I didn’t put any DNA online. She then peppered me with questions about “our” family. GTFOH. I told her that I have only two siblings—those I was raised with—and that her family is whoever raised her. She got very upset, so I called the police precinct near where she lived to have her cautioned.

I didn’t ask my father any questions or mention it to my mother because I don’t care. Some random jerk doesn’t get to blow up my family. The kind of selfish, aggressively intrusive person who seeks to override a closed adoption to wedge herself into others’ lives doesn’t deserve to be in my life IMO. I don’t need a kook occupying my time. [/quote]
Harsh, but real.[/quote]

She was trying to blow up the family(?) but, hey, not your father who is actually the  person in question here. No, she doesn't need a relationship with you or him, but she does deserve to get info. If you took it to court, she would be cautioned if she was harassing you. She wasn't. She was not a kook, but you are deluded. I doubt she was cautioned.[/quote]

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