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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman who had an affair almost ten years ago. My husband and I reconciled, but after a lot of work on myself and my marriage and helping my husband heal. We are in a great place now.

BUT...if I ever went ahead and did something that even remotely made my husband uncomfortable, he would be out the door. Which is his right, I agree with him. And that is what I find most upsetting here...you told him this dinner and interactions with the trainer made you uncomfortable, and he went ahead and did things anyway. Especially considering his history. That is disrespectful and makes me question whether he truly learned anything after the last experience with affairs.

I'm sorry OP. If I were you I'd quietly start gathering information and see if it matches up with what you get told. Maybe even go in and do a couples session of training to meet this trainer. A second chance from a betrayed spouse is a huge gift...if a former wayward spouse can't appreciate that then they definitely don't deserve a third chance. Good luck.[/quote]

He sounds like a pig. He also has no business having dinner with a personal trainer. Who does that?

It almost sounds like he enjoys her distress and gets a thrill out of it.  I'm in the camp that he's been cheating all along.[/quote]

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