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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. How do I fix this? [/quote]

I feel like you're broken up for good but if you are somehow more emotional and human IRL than you are on DCUM I would say your only chance of fixing it is to sit down with her and say something like, 'I didn't know this was such a weight on your shoulders and I'm sorry I haven't been paying attention. I'm also sorry I didn't take your request seriously and jumped to some silly conclusions. We've been dating for 3 years and I love you and see a future with you and in that context I understand that helping you with this is just helping us as a couple down the road. I'd really like to start this conversation over again because I don't want to lose you.' And say all that with real emotion and empathy.

And then start making plans to propose if you want to marry her. It has been 3 years. You either want to marry her or you should let her go.[/quote]

+1. If you highlighted the fact that you are doing this for OUR future and that you did NOt understand how the whole sistuation made ME feel, I might take you back. But make sure you mean t and you really love her. Don’t waste anymore of each other’s time[/quote]

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