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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She wanted to pay off her debt with the interest free promotion. If you were in it for the long haul that would be in your interest as well.

It's fine to not have gone along with it. But if I was in a relationship for three years I would think I could approach a significant other about solving a long term debt problem. This was an intelligent and practical financial goal and she was going to be more than matching with $750 bucks a month.

She doesn't sound like a gold digger she sounds like someone who had different expectations about the relationship. You act like everything is hunky dory and she's trying to make a plan to get out of debt. You never fight but did you not know about this burden?[/quote]

This.  She's asking for your help paying off her debt, and her plan includes her making the majority of the payments.  If she's a gold digger, she's a pretty bad one.  It sounds like she was really anxious about the debt, and she was trying to come up with a way to get rid of it, and she asked the guy who apparently saw a long-term future with her to help her, and he laughed at her.  Her reaction is to realize that he doesn't actually see a long-term future with her, that he does not see her as his partner.  She's hurt that he didn't take her problem seriously, that he apparently viewed her as a mooch.  That's going to be hurtful.  [/quote]

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