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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Normally I would say asking for financial help in a relationship is a nono but you've been dating for 3 years. I'd you were thinking about marrying her you would have done it and if you weren't then she should have dumped you. 3years is sh$# or get off the pot time.

And your seeming complete lack of concern or empathy for her very limited salary makes it worse.

Bottom line [b]if you're dating a graduate student enjoys making 24k a year and three years in they ask for some money for the first time they aren't a gold digger they justneed help. And if it was gonna be as forever relationship you would have wanted to give it.[/b] [/quote]
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It's the first time she asked for money in three years.  Asking for money, if you're not in the habit of doing it, is really hard for most people.  You are very embarrassed and vulnerable.  And your boyfriend acts like it's a joke?  That's a sign that he's not thinking he's going to spend the rest of his life with you.  So, it makes sense to cut your losses.  Certainly, you're not going to keep paying for plane tickets to go on vacation with him, when you're already in debt and trying to figure out how to pay it off.  And it probably is stressful, given that OP admits that he's not very emotionally supportive, either.  [/quote]

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