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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Someone needs to invent a pill, like viagra for the female libido. [/quote]

Why not a pill to calm a man's libido?[/quote]

Because sex feels amazing when you want it.[/quote]

It does but it feels just as amazing when it happens once every three weeks. [/quote]

There may come a time when having sex isn't an option, due to illness, injury, age, divorce. You may regret not taking advantage of a willng partner who is literally in your bed. [/quote]

This logic doesn't work with food and it doesn't work with sex, either.[/quote]

+1. lol. I think some men on DCUM are addicted to sex and are entitled to their addiction.

Anyway, the unmarried versions of these men should tell their potential spouses that they require sex 3 times a week(or however often) in order to be in a happy marriage.

I know that such information would have been useful to me and some women. I would run for the hills if a man told me that.

Thank goodness I do not have that problem. I am the high libido and very understanding spouse in my marriage.  [/quote]

Um, hello! Did you get married at the courthouse during your first date? If not, remember having sex 3 times per week while dating, while engaged, and the first 2 years of marriage? That was him telling you that sex 3 times per week is a requirement for a happy marriage. Why did you not run for the hills?[/quote]

Men should remaining wining and dining their wives 3 times a week, and the frequency of all the other charming things they did for their wives when they were dating and first married; vacations, surprises, etc. They should keep up with that frequency as well.

Many husbands and wives are not so self-centered that they cannot see how everything is so much different than it was during those honeymoon years. If all the self centered spouses found each other, they could implode together and reasonable people could marry each other and enjoy their lives.

Unfortunately, there is an imbalance because men have been taught that their sexual desires triumph everything. They should stay single and focus on sexual partners.

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