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[quote=Anonymous]The desire thing can be mysterious in women. I've always been high desire, including through two pregnancies (with boy babies).

In my third pregnancy, it was like a switch turned off. This time I was pregnant with a girl, and I don't know if the hormones were different or what, but it was freakish. And after she was born, it took a while to come back, and it has never been quite the same since.

I love sex, and have easy, amazing orgasms. I would give anything to feel desire the way I used to. I miss it.

Guys, imagine you're with someone you repulsed by, and you have to force yourself to go through the motions. Now at some point physical reaction to stimulation will kick in, so  it'll feel good and you can have orgasms, but so much is missing. (And if sex itself was never that enjoyable or took a lot of effort, you'd really really not want to do it.)

The way I handle it is to just make myself get in bed and get naked and cuddle. And sometimes I'll feel a hint of desire at some point. If not, I still enjoy the sensuality of skin on skin, and of course, when/if sex happens, I enjoy it.

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