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[quote=Anonymous]I am amazed at the amount of respect you have for one another, and especially you for her. The kids phases, especially when young, are challenging, very very challenging. I wish there were more transparency in our world, more people who openly talked about their struggles instead of posting how wonderful life is on Facebook. I know that we would see things differently, and if we felt we were "normal" women would be more apt to express what is rolling around in their heads.  I just think that with all you are saying, even if you think you have lost the feeling, it can be recovered. For some reason, even though you have expressed it to her many times, she is not getting it. She is either caught up in day to day life or her proprieties need to be shifted a bit. I don't think she is intentionally withholding sex from you, she simply does not get it. I have 3 kids, two from my first marriage and a one from my second. The youngest is 3. I know there are days, after a long day of work and running everywhere, that I feel like I just don't want to interact. I want to crawl in my bed away from everything, but when my husband offers a back rub, my attitude changes a bit. I don't know what the solution to your situation is, maybe like some suggested you should try counseling. It really can't hurt. I can tell you this, being a product of divorce, that what you have, this wonderful mutual respect for one another, is something that is not easy to find anymore. That what you have is worth saving if you are willing to invest. Try and figure out her love language and speak it as much as possible. Prayers to you and your family, I hope you can find a way to set your marriage on fire![/quote]

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