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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, we will try to go to counseling tomorrow or as soon as we can get an appointment.  DH will definitely agree to that.  I feel a bit emotionally exhausted and cannot imagine talking to a counselor (even this threat has been hell for me).

Obviously, I wish I could turn back time and dump him and not have had two kids at least.  [b]But, I wanted children so badly, so I wonder if I was purposefully blind to the way he was treating me and this is my fault. [/b] In any case, I can not turn back time and I am not going to make the children suffer, so I will have to somehow make it work.
[/quote]OP, this is a theme for you.  You are making yourself the powerful one and him the one who has to be helped along.  You are not treating him like an equal who has a responsibility to treat you well.  I'm not saying you don't have some responsibility in this situation but you keep making excuses for your dh's behavior.  You deserve better.  You should see a therapist on your own to help you work through this.  Good luck.[/quote]

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