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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone involved in this entire situation seems horrible TBH.[/quote]

Don't forget that the original invitation wasn't worded that way and was apparently completely appropriate. And then people checked that it was fine to bring kids to a coming-of-age drinking party that the OP acknowledges the hosts were "going all out for". So they said no. And then people were suggesting that since they weren't allowed at the party, then the host should pay to set up another party for the kids. And then he said no. Or the hosts should at least have a babysitter there to mind the kids. And evidently there were several people who were being pushy about it, which means there must have been even more people out there who just assumed it would be fine and intended on bringing their kids without even checking.

I can understand the host losing it. Especially when you see that OP clearly distinguishes herself from the "inappropriate" members of the family despite being entitled and totally out of line, so you can just imagine how bad the rest of them are.

Since a classy invitation and then a further clarification of "adults only" didn't work for at least several people, he did the only thing possible to ensure that there wouldn't be children there and met rude with rude. Sometimes you really do need to speak people's language if you want them to understand you.[/quote]

There's just no excuse to send a message like that to an entire party. Especially as a host. Publicly humiliating and shaming people like that, regardless of whether you think it was warranted, is not polite behavior for the host of a party to be expressing. This entire party is now defined by this guy getting into a facebook fight with his family over whether or not kids are invited to a kegger. In what world is this not a mess of crappy behavior?

Lets turn this around to this being a destination wedding and the bride sends out a scathing message to all the invitees telling them that "NO she will not pay for her cheap guests' airline tickets and she will not tolerate being asked about it. Anyone ELSE who asks me about it will be disinvited from the wedding. "

Everyone would be calling her a b$(#$ bridezilla.

1) OP sucks because she inserted herself where she doesn't belong
2) Host sucks because he's just exceptionally rude and entitled and instead of handling this privately publicly excoriated people
3) People who asked a young idiotic man to organize babysitting for their kids during his rager are idiots
5) People who didn't accept no for an answer and started badgering about babysitting suck even more than the rest of the #3 crowd
6) Cohost who allowed idiot young man to taint the entire event by starting it off on this aggressively obnoxious foot sucks
5) IYM's parents suck for not intervening and telling him not to suck so much[/quote]

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