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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of me relative to other wives :) especially when I score big professional wins. [/quote]

If you were fat or denying him sex he wouldn't give a damn about your "professional wins".[/quote]

I call BS. No matter how in shape I get or how much we have sex, my DH constantly complains I’m not as professionally advanced as him. No sh*t I’m not, he’s almost 10 years older than me. [/quote]

That sounds really weird.  What straight man cares about "professional advancement" in his woman?  We care that you're not stupid and can hold a job, but that's about it on that front.[/quote]

Are you a dad?  Do you have daughters?  Do you tell them that no one cares if they achieve anything professionally, that all that's important is how big their butts get?  if you really feel that's true, are you saving money to send them to college?  Seems like you might regard that as a waste of money -- perhaps in your mind it would be better to sign them up for one of those pole dancing fitness classes instead.Are you going to have them all get plastic surgery and implants in their teens?[/quote]

They are not ready for that conversation yet. But someday, at perhaps age 20, I will tell them:
1. They are now as good looking as they're ever going to be. It is all downhill from there. Keep that in mind going forward.
2. Yes, men care primarily about looks. Therefore, my girls should use those looks to get a high-value man before looks and fertility fade.
3. Their "profession" is only relevant insofar as it allows them to secure a high-value man. If they are sufficiently good looking (and they will be - they won't need any surgery or implants) their husband will not give a damn that they have a "low achievement" career. 
4. [b]College is only useful in order to meet men of a similar social class. Don't spend too much money on it or get some idiotic degree that takes a long time and never pays off[/b] (e.g., a PhD).
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If that doesn't work out as planned, will you support them financially their entire adult lives?[/quote]

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