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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kids don’t belong in the marital bed. The End. [/quote]

A lot of people co-sleep in the kids' bed. I do.

[b]I have to stay until she falls asleep, then I leave. [/b]But then I go in the room to sleep there. She is three years old. If I don't, and I slept in the "marital bed," she would wake up and scream and run into our room, which wakes my husband up. He would rather have interrupted sleep. I prefer that, too. If I am next to her at night, she usually does not wake up. Sometimes she does, but she doesn't start crying in fear of being alone. She just wants a hug and goes back to sleep. Staying in her room allows us all, including my other child, to get a good night's rest. [/quote]
That's you own doing and you aren't doing your child favors by showing them they can do what your child is doing and get their way.[/quote]

I don’t think PP is unhappy about having to stay with her daughter until she falls asleep. I do the same and I love it. They are not spoiled at all. They are very independent and I found out today “very advanced” from an OT that works at one of my DDs’ school. I love to sleep with them. They need to feel safe and secure much more than my husband does.[/quote]

And that last line right there is why your marriage will go down the tubes. [/quote]

You response to my post (in bold) is your opinion. My marriage is fine, thanks. Our arrangement has worked for years and divorce is not an option for either of us. [/quote]

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