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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I admire you for doing this. I read on FB a post about a year of buying no jewelry, handbags, or clothes. I'm considering that for this year. It also wipes out buying gifts for others, which I really enjoy, so I am sure I'll keep on doing that part. Loving your follow-up to all of this. [b]There is something sickening about the excess of Christmas to me[/b]. [/quote] Hi OP and PP, good work! I am also trying something similar to the above. Also just still reeling from Christmas excess. Really, I am modeling on the Patchett article that came out a couple weeks ago: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/15/opinion/sunday/shopping-consumerism.html?_r=0 This part really resonated with me, the loss of time and sort of self-medicated aspect of internet shopping: [quote]At the end of 2016, our country had swung in the direction of gold leaf, an ecstatic celebration of unfeeling billionaire-dom that kept me up at night. I couldn’t settle down to read or write, and in my anxiety I found myself mindlessly scrolling through two particular shopping websites, numbing my fears with pictures of shoes, clothes, purses and jewelry. ... Not shopping saves an astonishing amount of time. In October, I interviewed Tom Hanks about his collection of short stories in front of 1,700 people in a Washington theater. Previously, I would have believed that such an occasion demanded a new dress and lost two days of my life looking for one. In fact, Tom Hanks had never seen any of my dresses, nor had the people in the audience. I went to my closet, picked out something weather appropriate and stuck it in my suitcase. Done. [/quote] So no more clothes, shoes, books (at least until I have read the many I already have lying around which should take at least 6 mos.), consumer goods, electronics, etc. Groceries and basic CVS medicine/toiletries OK. No more toys and knick-knacks for the kids, except for birthday/holidays. But will buy books occasionally (after deliberation), necessary clothes, and a big exception for craft supplies (that stuff is meant to be used, and no, I am not going to attempt to DIY paint or construction paper). But I am modifying OP's plan in a major respect and that is I'll definitely spend to save time. In fact, I am trying to conserve time even more than save money. So I am fine with takeout, because we have several reasonably healthy options within two blocks of our house and it is indeed faster. I would not be fixing the pepper mill (I'd probably just use the pre-ground pepper we already have). I don't feel any need to canvass the house first for dental floss (or chapstick in Patchett's example) because those are all consumables and will be eventually used even if I have extra. I would though, as OP did, look through the cupboard to find matching lids, etc., because that obviates the need for a durable good altogether. GL, all! [/quote]
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