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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]15:31 - you sound codependent if you're expecting 100% of someone's time.  And maybe a little pathetic.

Some people have busy jobs and hobbies and are ok with occupying less than 100% of another person's attention. I know quite a few guys who get excited when they meet a woman who isn't so clingy and understands when they have to work long hours or travel or go out with the guys.

As for the women wanting custody thing, a lot of us aren't sure how our co-parents will do when they're solo, based on what we've seen when they're with us.  Parenting doesn't come naturally to everyone.  It can be hard to let go of your kid if you're not sure what the outcome will be.  My ex worked his way up to 3 nights a week with our daughter but it took him awhile to get comfortable with 1 day and then 2 before asking for 3.  I never tried to limit him; less custody was his idea in the first place.[/quote]

Assuming the guy is exaggerating about 100%, he's not codependent. He wants a relationship. If you want that, make time, make it happen. Yeah, kids are a priority, but a lot of us aren't looking to be penciled into your busy schedule only on alternate Saturday evenings. [/quote]

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