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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Non-stop sexual harassment? Maybe not, but non-stop sexualization, yes.

[b]I defy any woman on this board to say they've never felt uncomfortable by a man's attention -- whether it involved staring/leering, comments, unwanted touches or unwanted pursuit for dates/sex. That is a reality I think men simply don't understand.[/b]

That said, I don't think inappropriate comments rise to the level of being trapped in a car with a man twice your age who is forcing your face toward his groin or being asked for sex by someone who could end your career with a single call. [/quote]

[b]But what about all of the times YOU LIKED IT? How is a man supposed to know in advance if you're going like it or not unless he tries?[/b] As long as you backs off when you tell him, there is no problem. GROW UP! [/quote]

And right there is the problem.  A totally clueless guy with little to no social skills, covertly offering his D to nearly every woman he encounters that he thinks may be F'able.

Let me help you out there, buddy.  If you are talking about, "staring/leering, comments, unwanted touches or unwanted pursuit for dates/sex."  She doesn't EVER like it, regardless of her reaction.  There, now you "know in advance."  It's shouldn't be on her to back you off from your clumsy, unwanted attempts to get to know her.

Please do the rest of us a favor and learn how to actually talk to women in a non-threatening way.  Start a dialogue that does not involve you and her getting together, or anything that even hints of her sexuality or attractiveness.  Or better yet, just leave her the F alone and let her go about her business.  She came into the Starbucks to get coffee, not a date.  She went to the gas station to buy gas and maybe a snack, not to entertain some leering guy following her around the store, then trapping her in the check out line with stupid come-ons, asking for her phone number.  Asking if she is married and all the other stupid shit I'm sure you do.

Because, you know, how does a guy like you have any idea if she is going to like it, unless he tries?  Seriously, pay attention and get a clue.  Stop bothering women and learn how to interact with people in a non-threatening manner.[/quote]

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