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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP here. Usually they say: "let's get together sometime." I say, "great! We're pretty much always free on the weekends, let me know what works for you." Then either I don't end up ever hearing from them again about this or they say something like, "we'll have you over, let us know a good time that works for you"--but that's not really an invitation. Because then I would say, well how about this Saturday?" and I don't want to put them on the spot or make it seem like I'm inviting myself over. A proper invitation is "we'd love for you to come over for a playdate this Saturday at 4 pm. Are you free then?" [/quote] OP, my suggestion is that you start saying, "Well, how about this Saturday?" You are waiting for people to behave according to your expectations. Evidently that is not working. Time to try a different strategy.[/quote]
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