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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Firstly, this isn't a bombshell. A bombshell is 
" I have two kids.","
 i used to be a woman,"
 "this is my first relationship with  woman I'm trying out being hetero"
" I believe my cat is my lord and savior."
"I think women lie about rape."

What your boyfriend told you is the kind of stuff you should be talking about as you get to know each other.

Personally, I would be against anyone rigidly committed to one way or the other. So talk to him and see how flexible he is.
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The point is that if OP considers it a bombshell, it's extremely unlikely to be a workable relationship. FWIW, I posted above about DH saying early-ish in our relationships that he thinks it's nicer to have a SAHP. If DH had stated what OP's BF said the way she is presenting it, I would have run for the hills. I think ti's relevant that at the time DH was 27, not 40. Also that my now-DH very clearly stated it as an observation based on his own childhood but not as a strong preference. [/quote]

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