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[quote=HoCo333][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to have an affair because DH basically ignores me except on the rare occasions he feels like having sex, and I am stuck on my own with the kids during his constant work travel. However, I can't imagine how I'd actually do it. No one has expressed any interest in having an affair with me. I'm not overweight and try to dress nicely, but maybe I'm just too old? (43). How do people get these affairs started?[/quote] In my experience, women in their early 40s, or from about 38 on are the best candidates for cheating. You shouldn't have any trouble finding someone but time is always an issue. That said, you aren't looking to date, just spend a few hours of quality naked time. As for finding someone, you do know there are sites dedicated to this end, right?[/quote] Guy here and this is my experience. I cannot speak for the article, but I know several women bw late thirties and fifty who are itching for excitement and have gone through with it. [/quote] I am 50. I have a HS friend, a woman, who is also 50. We are not in the same area, so there's nothing between us except we talk candidly. (not explicitly, just very open). She is divorced, and said she has had affairs with three married men, one fairly seriously that is still going on. Four or five of her closest friends, also late 40/early 50s, also have been involved in affairs. Some women who feel unsatisfied still are very much interested and have a high sex drive into their 50s, and they can attract the men they want.[/quote] Sure. I find it hard to believe that she had multiple affairs in her 50’s. The sex drive stops, it takes a lot of energy(most 50 plus do not have) and people love to lie about sex and money. The women I know over 5o talk of a different dynamic. The men are in demand and the women really have to work hard.[/quote] She had the other two affairs in her late 40s, and is 50 now and has been in one for about six months. She clearly has high sex drive, still looks good and apparently has no problem finding men who are interested. I am not condoning her choices to hook up with married men but I have no reason to not believe her. [/quote] You are comparing women in their 50's who are looking for a partner and a woman in their 50's who is having an affair. Finding a man that wants to have an affair is like shooting fish in a bucket, even at 50 (gasp)... have you seen a 50 yo woman lately, they are not looking bad, not the ones I know. Anyway, the women that respect themselves and are looking for a good loving partner... forget.about.it. Finding scum who cheat is much easier. [/quote] No it’s hard to find men after 40. Sure you can settle for the 5% of men who will sleep with anyone, but it’s not like you will be pursued. Also sex drive just falls off a cliff. So [b]you will have to fake it....what’s the point?[/b] [/quote] The point is that sex is one of the ways a committed relationship stays vibrant, and for many men, it's the way they most feel loved. so if it matters to you that your partner feels loved, that's a point. And men should also be doing the things that a woman wants that make her feel loved, which may have nothing to do with sex[/quote]
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