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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=ddintysons][quote]How is it unfair that having little money and lots of fat isn't high on many people's hot lists?[/quote]

I have no problem with what anyone puts on their hot list.  There is a a problem with the sexist hypocrisy on DCUM.  Some women on this forum (and on this thread) have no problem stating that fat, non-rich men do not turn them on.

Cool.

My question is can these same women agree that when a rich, thin DH in his mid-40s dumps his mid-40s wife for a smoking hot early 30s new wife he is well within his rights?  If a man were to say "I cannot sleep with my DW because she does look as good as when we got hitched 15 years ago and I want and can afford someone that does" this board would light up.

Let's get the "it is different.  A woman cannot help getting old but a man can help getting fat" out of the way right now.

You have no idea what caused each man's weight gain.  All you can see is the result.  Therefore, you do not know if he had a biological issue that was not resolved, etc. that caused the problem.  If a person is only judging him on the way he looks now, then they cannot say much if someone does the same to them.[/quote]

Actually, none of the women have talked about rich men turning them on.  It's just men focusing on that, as usual.  I suspect as a form of wishful thinking, hoping that they can use this to make up for their shabby physiques.  It's as irrelevant as me saying "men will only get turned on by fat women if they have a big bank account"- no, men won't.  Because human beings don't get turned on by money unless they have some kind of weird fetish or disorder.  Marry or date someone because they have money- yes, that helps.  It certainly increases your chances of finding a partner (A rather homely looking billionaire's daughter in England dating the 'hot felon' Jeremy Meeks is a good example of how this goes both ways).  But when it comes to being turned on?  Nope.

And again, men get old too.  Men seem to have this magical idea of women's sexuality that never seems to prioritize physical appearance.  It's absurd, and, again- delusional. [/quote]

Agreed.  Want to know why every romance novel has a ridiculously hot guy on the cover and not some dad bod?  It's because women don't fantasize about being taken by a pale fat guy with skinny arms.  There would be a lot fewer sexless marriages if people could put their politically correct view of "how things oughtta be" aside and recognize that they're trying to swim upstream against evolution.

If you want your wife/husband to want to tear off your clothes, it helps a lot if there's a fit/healthy body underneath them.  Add skill in the bedroom and being nice when you're out of it and you have a recipe for regular repeat business.

Honestly, I think both spouses should stay fit and attractive for themselves and each other.  There's nothing wrong with being the best possible version of yourself.[/quote]

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