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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Holy hell. Now we're saying 33 is old to have a first child?[/quote]
NP here, I wouldn't say old but definitely not young.
That poster said she felt she has time on her side, I think that's crazy,[/quote]

I think 33 is oldish to have a first child. I wouldn't want to wait that long. Obviously lots of women do and it often is fine, but I would feel old af having my first kid at that age. [/quote]
It's often fine at 40 and 19, and many other ages too. In fact it's usually fine. Not everyone has the luxury of perfectly timing when they start their families. But I guess people like you will smugly look down their noses at anyone who made a different choice than you. What's it like to live with that level of insecurity on a regular basis?[/quote]
+1

Anytime is a great time to have a healthy pregnancy, if it happens to work out that way.

I will be 35 this year, have an almost 2.5 year old, and didn't feel ready for another baby until just recently. I nervously scheduled a routine OB visit to see if I was "all systems go" for another pregnancy and was reassured that [b]some of you call a "geriatric" pregnancy at 35/36 [/b]wouldn't be treated much differently than my pregnancy at age 31/32. My provider said one of the only major differences would be that insurance would cover cell-free DNA testing since I would be AMA and that extra screening/testing would be offered if any early testing was abnormal.[/quote]

By "some of us" do you mean the medical/scientific community? Folks aren't just using that term to hurt your feelings, honey.[/quote]

Why the ugly, condescending "honey?" PP was just sharing what her doctor told her, which is in accordance to current obstetric recommendations. [/quote]

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