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[quote=Anonymous]He is not intellectually stimulating.  He is a loner and I am an extrovert.  Is not a conversationalist, doesnt read or follow the news.  His leisure time at home is video games and TV...mostly sports.   He isn't interested in dates...even watching a movie together is like pulling teeth and we never want to watch the same thing and he doesn't see the point in going out to eat.   I am exhausted doing it all at home...excluding the lawn/yard work/trash.  I'm tired of being the primary breadwinner and paying for 97% of everything in a household with 3 kids while he struggles to contribute an amount which barely covers utilities, his personal portions of the cell phone/car insurance/cable, his cars, credit debt which is primarily from fast food/carryout/cash advances and maybe a few hundred beyond that towards the mortgage and expenses of three kids.   I am pretty much carrying us all financially on my own and resent it.  With little to no ambition to grow career or income which has been stagnant or even decreased.   Not a fan of the regular weed habit.   We are still physically attracted to each other...but sex is at maybe 3-4 times a year now.   I feel neglected in all other aspects of what I would expect in a normal relationship conversation, companionship and non-sexual affection so I am not really feeling enamored enough for sex.  When we do it is good sex....I just need more.  You can't ignore every other aspect of the relationship and then come to me wanting to get it on when you have barely spoken to me in weeks and can't find even one hour a week to make time together a priority.  So those are the primary problems.  [/quote]

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