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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get your resentment over paying your own husband's school loans.  [b] Who did you expect would pay it? [/b]  Also, you're saying they _forced_ you to pay it _because_ you're an immigrant? Really??

I get they may not be nice to you, but at least examine whether your bitterness is even rational.  Look around, lots and lots of families have struggled under debt from medical bills, school and other things. I You didn't, you had the means. That was a long time ago.

Many people dislike their in-laws, but your problem is your false victimhood[/quote]

I'm not OP, but I'm a PP. Why should she pay someone else's loans? He's an adult, he can pay them himself, and still manage to contribute the same amount to the household. Grownups do not expect/ accept others paying their debts for them. [/quote]

One you're married, all your debts are jointly yours, unless you lay out a prenuptial. In any case if he paid them the money still comes from the family pot...hello, how's this not obvious??[/quote]

Omg OP, you have to stop.

I was starting to feel a little empathy for you, but then you come and post all of these posts pretending that other people are posting then in defense of you (and don't deny it, you're the only one who gets this worked up defending you & sees things ONLY from your perspective).

This is a lost cause... she will be like this forever & make everyone around her so incredibly miserable, that she'll end up bitter & alone (she's already extremely bitter, the alone part can't be far off).[/quote]

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