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[quote=Anonymous]OK- I've gotten sucked into this forum -- however appalling a lot of the responses. I'm a 40 yr old "hot" woman and will absolutely say I was an ugly duckling in my 20s compared to my sexy thirties. In my 20s, yes I had fun backpacking around the world and wearing shitty clothes and chopping my hair short pixie cut, and hooked up with a lot of dudes. I was 110 pounds and 5'7" and naturally skinny and ate like a horse. But my 30s, I joined a gym, lifted weights, got up to a healthier 125 pounds, grew out my hair, highlighted it, and suddenly felt unstoppable - whoosh! -- no longer the DJ dudes I was hooking up with, but CEOs and their planes -- and I was too busy for them because I was in grad school and in private sector killing it - but feeling smoking hot. It's all about a state of mind. I've quit the need to "feel" hot and in my 40s am into yoga/meditation/letting go of the competition and materialism of my 30s......... I still feel like each year should get better than the last! But LOL if you think you've peaked in your 20s, please re-adjust your world view - and focus on your emotional/intellectual growth/maybe polish yourself up inside and out. Hugs to you!!![/quote]
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